A TikToker named Kndllleclaire shared a video about a charming night she spent with a cowboy she met at a bar, where he took her on multiple late-night horseback rides. Initially, she thought it was a magical, unique experience, but commenters quickly revealed that this cowboy, allegedly named Nehemiah, is known for taking different women on the same horseback outing repeatedly. Many women chimed in with their own stories, some exposing that he was already in a relationship or made them uncomfortable, turning the comments into a collective “Are we dating the same guy?” forum.

Viewers also noted that the cowboy’s “party trick” of midnight horse rides seems to be a well-worn routine that likely works on many women, much to the exhaustion of both the horse and the audience. The post went viral with over 2 million views, sparking widespread advice for Kndllleclaire to move on from the cowboy and his repetitive romantic routine.