Frida Stavenow’s essay “Am I Free? Am I Safe? Can I Stay?” explores the transformative experience of individuals living in a sanctuary for horses, finding reprieve from various struggles in their lives. The community, comprised of individuals from diverse backgrounds, shared resources, stories, and experiences, creating a sense of freedom and connection that was previously unknown to them. Through communal living, they found solace in each other and in the animals they cared for, forming a unique bond that transcended societal norms.
As the community grew, challenges arose, including the mental health struggles of some members. Despite differing opinions on how to handle these challenges, the community remained united in their mission to care for each other and the animals they rescued. The essay highlights the complexities of communal living, including the need for leadership, boundaries, and the difficult decisions that must be made for the greater good.
Ultimately, the sanctuary faced changes and departures as individuals grappled with the realities of life outside the sanctuary. Some returned to their previous lives, while others embarked on new paths, inspired by their time in the community. The essay captures the bittersweet nature of communal living, showcasing the impact it had on individuals’ lives and the lasting connections forged during their time together.