The author reflects nostalgically on her competitive horse-riding days in college, cherishing the formal equestrian attire and the unique sanctuary the barn provided from societal pressures. Revisiting riding ahead of her 40th birthday, she reconnects with her younger self, Katie, while noting how much equestrian fashion has evolved since her youth. She rejects the trendy and often inauthentic “horse girl” label and the synthetic, athleisure-inspired riding clothes popular on social media.

Upon returning to riding, the author discovers that modern equestrian apparel prioritizes breathable, technical fabrics designed for comfort and movement, a stark contrast to the rigid, traditional gear she once wore. Though puzzled by some contemporary flashy styles, she appreciates brands like the French label Dada, which blend classic elegance with modern performance, echoing the timeless style she once adored.